！
like the outcome after an exam, death makes us aware of anything,
that is, it’s too late to take a tumble.
14．你出生的時候，你哭著，周圍的人笑著；你逝去的時候，你笑著，而周圍的
人在哭！
when you were born, you’re crying but lookers-on were smiling. when
you are passing away, you’re smiling but lookers-on are crying.
15．男人在結婚前覺得適合自己的女人很少，結婚後覺得適合自己的女人很多
man might think that few women fit him before his marriage, and
contrarily when they get married.
16．於千萬人之中，遇見你所遇見的人；於千萬年之中，時間的無涯荒野里，沒
有早一步，也沒有晚一步，剛巧趕上了
among thousands of people, you meet those you’ve met. through
thousands of years, with the boundlessness of time, you happen to meet
them, neither earlier nor a bit too late.
17．每個人都有潛在的能量，只是很容易:被習慣所掩蓋，被時間所迷離,被惰性
所消磨.
everyone has his inherent ability( power or capacity?) which is easily
concealed by habbits, blurred by time, and eroded by laziness( or
inertia?).
18．人生短短几十年，不要給自己留下了什麼遺憾，想笑就笑，想哭就哭，該愛
的時候就去愛，無謂壓抑自己
be sure that you have never had any regrets in your life which only
lasts for a few decades. laugh or cry as you like, and it‘s
meaningless to oppress yourself.
19．能沖刷一切的除了眼淚，就是時間，以時間來推移感情，時間越長，衝突越
淡，仿佛不斷稀釋的茶
apart from tears, only time could wear everything away. while feeling
is being processed by time, conflicts would be reconciled as time goes
by, just like a cup of tea that is being continuously diluted.
20．真正的愛情是不講究熱鬧不講究排場不講究繁華更不講究嚎頭的 a true
love is what doesn‘t strive for busyness, for extravagance, for
luxury, and moreover for hokum.
21．生命中，不斷地有人離開或進入。於是，看見的，看不見了；記住的，遺忘
了。生命中，不斷地有得到和失落。於是，看不見的，看見了；遺忘的，記住了
。 然而，看不見的，是不是就等於不存在？記住的，是不是永遠不會消失？
there is someone that is coming or passing away in your life around the
clock, so you may lose sight of those seen, and forget those
remembered. there is gain and loss in your life, so you may catch sight
of those unseen, and remember those forgotten. nevertheless, doesn‘t
the unseen exist for sure? will the remembered remain for ever?
22．我們確實活得艱難，一要承受種種外部的壓力，更要面對自己內心的困惑。
在苦苦掙扎中，如果有人向你投以理解的目光，你會感到一種生命的暖意，或許
僅有短暫的一瞥，就足以使我感奮不已。
it‘s true that we have been leading a difficult life, for we need not
only to be under various external pressures, but also to be in the face
of internal perplexities.you would be affected by the warmth of life if
someone gives you a understanding look during your bitter struggle.even
a mere glance would make you moved and inpired.
23．我不去想是否能夠成功,既然選擇了遠方,便只顧風雨兼程；我不去想,身後會
不會襲來寒風冷雨,既然目標是地平線,留給世界的只能是背影. i wouldn‘t