每個男人都是獨特的，他們自然也希望自己的女人是獨一無二的。此外，男人會根據不同的需求來選擇女朋友，妻子或是周六晚上的約會對象。考慮到這一點，男人通常根據以下十大品質來尋找不同的對象。因為每個人都有其不同點，以下排名不分先後。
1、支持。男人們希望遇到支持他們的女人，特別是在他們想發展一段長期關係的時候。在男人20幾歲的時候，他們仍在為事業奮鬥，女友的支持是相當重要的。他想要有一個能聆聽他的心事，而不是對他冷嘲熱諷的人，是一個能給他客觀建議，讓他能在別人面前表現良好的人.
2、隨和。男性通常會尋找一個好脾氣的另一半，脾氣暴躁的人實在是不討喜。鄰家女孩通常是男性想認真發展時優先考慮的對象，一個能帶回家見家長的女孩，一個與之相處愉悅的女孩。男人希望女人落落大方，不會擔心妝容被破壞，性情悠閒，知足常樂。
3、良好的幽默感。沒有人會願意和性格陰沉、嚴肅沉悶的人生活在一起。男孩子們希望女生能因為自己講的笑話而哈哈大笑，同時也希望她們有時也能講一些有趣的事，享受自己的人生。他們不想遇見那些總是消極否認一切、難以取悅的女性。擁有活潑個性和樂觀態度的女生對男生充滿了吸引力。
4、自信。男人喜歡自信的女人，那些抬頭挺胸走進房間、以眼神交流的女性是引人注目的。比起那些需要他人持續肯定的女性，對自己的外表和能力充滿自信更容易讓人接近。女孩偶爾因為缺少安全感而依靠自己的感覺很是美好，然而男生卻會對那些需要不斷鼓勵的女性感到厭煩。
5、獨立。對於多數男性來說，獨立是一個迷人的特性，他們喜歡女性有自己的生活。男生享受女生的關注，但同時若是女生把她的男人當成自己的生活重心則會顯得太過粘人。男生需要關心和照顧，但同時他們也需要自己的空間。他們更願意約那些有自己朋友圈娛樂圈的女生。不過，與此同時，男人願意承擔開支，他們需要女人依靠於他們以提醒自己在某個方面是必要的。
6、衣裝整潔。無可否認外表的重要性，這是一個女生吸引男生最原始的原因。男生喜歡有女人味的女生，可能是因為這更能襯托出他們的男子氣概。大多數的男生也喜歡有著一頭秀髮的女生，它的重要性介於外表和著裝整潔之間。沒有人會喜歡不注意保持個人衛生的女孩。同時，體型優美、身體健康的女生更能讓男生著迷。
7、善解人意。男人們渴望一個善解人意的女友，不要總是束縛他們。她應當接受男友的各方面並願意做一些小調整。此外，雖然不同的觀點可能具有一定吸引力，但是，男人希望女人能接受他的信仰，願意分享他的喜惡。女生的無理取鬧是戀愛大忌。男人們期待有一個支持欣賞自己的女性伴侶。
8、成熟得體的發言。孩子氣的話語可能有時會讓人覺得可愛，但通常男人喜歡成熟而講道理的女性。她要能夠參與一場不圍繞衣服和化妝品的正規社交。她應該表現出興致而不是大聲喧譁。同時，如果一個女孩子經常爆粗口也會被判出局，特別是在男性自己都不說髒話的情況下。
9、誠實而衷心。男人們自然希望女人不對自己撒謊，能忠於自己。他要能確信這個女人不會在他不在的時候與他的朋友調情。因此，他們尋找的女性最明顯的特徵就是誠實可靠。他們想要有人無論發生什麼事都願意站在自己那一邊。看看因不忠而導致的分手和離婚的調查數據，我們並不意外在尋找女性伴侶時男方對這項品質的高度重視。
10、善良體貼。男人明確表示最喜歡那些照顧他們的女人，從小方面展示她們的關心。一些小動作，例如為他做飯，熨衣服，問問他是否已經吃過午飯或是飛快的一個吻，都會在他心情低落的時候讓他心存感激。當男人們知道自己的女友在關心自己，注意到細節，照顧滿足自己的需要，他們總會覺得世界如此美好。不過，男人同時也希望能有自己的空間，女性要避免觸及底線。
every man is different and wants different things in his woman. moreover, what he wants depends on whether he is looking for a girlfriend, a wife or someone to go out with on a saturday night. with that in mind, here are the top 10 qualities that most men usually look out for. it’s in no particular order, as it differs from person to person.
1. supportive
men look for supportive women, particularly when they are interested in a long-term relationship. for a guy in his 20s, who is still struggling with his career, the support of his girl is very important. he wants someone who will listen to him, without making fun of him or putting him down. someone who will give him objective advice and make him look good in front of others.
2. easy going
guys look for girls who are easy going, an uptight person is not really liked by men. ‘the girl next door’ is most preferred when they intend to have a serious relationship. a girl they can take home to meet their family and a girl they can have a good time with. men look for women who can let go, someone who isn’t afraid of messing up her makeup, who is laid back and easy to please.
3. good sense of humor
no one wants to be with someone who has a dull personality and is always serious. guys want a girl who can laugh at their jokes, herself at times say something funny and enjoy herself. they don’t want someone who is always negative about everything and finds it difficult to enjoy herself. girls with a cheery disposition and positive outlook are attractive to men.
4. confident
men like their women to be confident, someone who enters a room walking tall and makes eye contact is found to be attractive. women who are confident about their looks and abilities are easier to be around, than those who need constant affirmation. it’s nice to have your girl lean on you for support with her insecurities once in a while, but someone who needs constant support can be a little annoying.
5. independent
independence is an attractive trait to most men, they like women who have their own life. while, it can be nice to receive attention from a girl, someone who’s life revolves around her guy will be way too clingy. guys need attention and care but at the same time they need their space. they are more likely to date a girl who has her own set of friends and hangs out with them. but, at the same time, men like being providers and need a woman to be dependant on them to an extent, to remind them that they are needed.