1、husbands and wives in the process of divorce (and those in the throes of another argument )easily fall into the trap of denigraging the other, publicly if possible, and as often as possible. (howards mel, american writer)正在鬧離婚的（包括那些處於吵鬧不停的痛楚中的）夫妻們很容易陷在對方的泥沼中不能自拔， 這種詆毀是儘可能公開的，儘量頻繁地進行。——梅爾