My family's house rules story has two principles: one, to be good; Two, on this basis, and strive to do a useful person.
Discipline is not just daughter, more of a tube we adults. From our daughter was born to now, nearly 9 years down, looking back, whatever our parents do good house rules, often daughter also did well; We parents lead the violation, or good house rules, often are punished.
In my home, before the rice then empress to wash hands, wash a face to brush your teeth before going to bed, basic implementation in place; The house rules related to the learning and effective implementation. I basic don't watch TV at ordinary times, do not play games, when they have free reading, try to go out to do outdoor sports, every week the husband read books at home too much at ordinary times, daughter, also frequently twice, read the phrases dictionary and math also enjoy it. Sometimes with a husband see reflection after several times, but there are some rules in our house, do not too ideal, such as "to bring things back where you", "their dirty things packed immediately", "no temper tantrum" and so on, to think of it, because our parents can't set a good example. So, her daughter set rules and implementation rules, also is our parents' self-reflection, good chance to start.
Lead by example. Personally, I think in Chinese family education is to teach children more people skills, and school teach more knowledge of child education.
我家的家規故事有兩個原則：一，先做個好人;二，在此基礎上，再努力做個有用的人。
家規並不只管女兒，更是管我們大人的。從女兒出生到現在，快9年下來，回頭一看，凡是我們父母做得好的家規，往往女兒也表現不錯;我們父母帶頭違反、或者言不由衷的家規，常常都是空文。
在我家，飯前便後要洗手、睡前要刷牙洗臉，基本執行到位;與學習有關的家規也有效落實了。我平時基本不看電視、不玩遊戲、有空就看書，儘量每周出去做戶外運動，老公平時也在家看書多，女兒耳濡目染，也常常手不釋卷，讀成語詞典和做數學題也樂在其中。有時還拿著老公看的三國志看上幾遍，可是，我們家還有一些家規，做得不太理想，比如“哪裡拿來的東西放回哪裡去”、“自己弄髒的東西馬上收拾好”、“不能亂發脾氣”之類，細想起來，都是因為我們父母不能以身作則。所以，給女兒制定家規、執行家規，也是我們父母的自我反省、重新出發的好機會。
以身作則。我個人以為在中國親職教育更多則教孩子為人處事的道理，而學校教的更多的是孩子知識方面的教育了。